Be a budget savvy bride and groom

The average American wedding costs $27,800.00 and the days of “dad” footing the entire bill are numbered. According to a recent study by The Wedding Report, in 2011 83.2% of U.S. couples made a contribution or paid the entire cost of their wedding, and only 51.5% of parents contributed to the wedding.  The more people contributing to your wedding finances the more confusing the budgeting and bookkeeping will end up being.

Here are my TOP 2 wedding budgeting tips to help all parties involved communicate effectively and stay on track!

Tip #1: Determine your budget

Plan a money date and figure out how much money you and your fiancé can spend.

  • Calculate how much money (if any) you have saved, and how much of that you are willing to use if you stick to a rigid saving plan.

Schedule a sit down meeting with all parties involved, and be mindful of economic differences.

  • Meet with everyone who is contributing to the cost of your wedding, to talk about the expenses.
  • Two separate meetings might be a good idea if those contributing come from different economic backgrounds in order to avoid potentially awkward and uncomfortable moments.

Pick your priorities.

  • Try using an online budgeter (like the one on TheKnot.com) to breakdown your budget item by item.
  • Decide what is most important to you and then dedicate your budget accordingly.

Be upfront and honest with your vendors.

  • Always approach your vendors with the budget you have allocated the service they will be providing you.
  • Have them create a proposal for you within that budget.
  • You might want to account 10% of your budget for extras and upgrades. 

Tip #2: Manage your funds

Open a bank account devoted specifically to your wedding so you can track your spending.

  • Make sure you don’t agree to frivolous upgrades without recognizing the economic impact.

Devise a secondary savings plan.

  • After deciding on a wedding budget, and figuring out how much of your savings you would like to contribute to this budget, open your “Wedding Bank Account.”
  • Once you have transferred money into this account, create an additional savings plan.
  • Creating an automatic monthly transfer from your checking account to your “wedding account” will help to manage the wedding budget and spending.

Reap great rewards: Sign up for a credit card with a rewards program.

  • Make your wedding costs work for you! Sign up for a new credit card with a rewards program, allowing you to earn points each time you spend.
  • You know you are going to be spending — make it work to your advantage.
  • Make sure you have the money to pay of your card in FULL each month!

The Bridal Budget Breakdown:

  • Reception: 50%
  • Attire: 10%
  • Photo and Video: 10%
  • Flowers and Décor: 10%
  • Music & Entertainment: 10%
  • Invitations & Gifts: 10%

When it comes to weddings and money, (especially other people’s money) it’s important to remember to communicate and take into account each party’s economic differences and needs. Hope these tips can help you or someone you know plan ahead before walking down the aisle.

Live Rich,

David Bach

 

NBC’s Today Show – Money 911 – July 11, 2012

If you missed me on NBC’s Today Show – Money 911 this morning make sure to watch the segment now! This week we discussed if debt consolidation will hurt your credit score if the loan’s in your partner’s name, refinancing a mortgage on a condo when there is a lawsuit involving the condo association, and safe online survey websites to make some extra summer cash.

Hope our answers helped you!

Live Rich,
David Bach

Life, Liberty and YOUR Pursuit of Happiness

In the spirit of the Independence Day, I want you to take some time to reflect on the importance of “Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness” not only when it comes to our country, but when it comes to your personal life.

I believe each of us has the power to discover our purpose and become joyful in the pursuit of that purpose. This journey may not be easy however; if you look back in history you’ll realize that nothing important and meaningful ever is.

To help guide you in your pursuit of happiness, I want to introduce you to what I call the “LIVE RICH FACTOR”. I call it this because those who find the purpose that leads them to happiness are the luckiest people in the world and are in fact, the ones who are truly living richly.

There are four basic principles involved in creating your LIVE RICH Factor:

PRINCIPLE ONE | BECOME CONNECTED WITH YOUR TRUTH.
The hardest thing to do is to be honest with yourself. We lie more to ourselves than to anyone else. You must tell yourself the truth about whether or not you are truly happy. If you are not happy, you must admit it to yourself. To really be connected to your truth, you must tell yourself and the world the truth. You must have what I call “truth congruence”— which means that who you are on the inside matches who you show to the world on the outside.

PRINCIPLE TWO | STOP JUDGING YOURSELF.
You are your own harshest critic. Many people talk to themselves in a way they would never accept from a stranger, a friend, or a loved one. If this describes you, try stopping the negative conversations you have with yourself immediately.

Try this, for one week, simply commit to just saying “Stop it!” when you think a negative thought about yourself. If you are in the habit of saying negative things to yourself, you will find this is one of the most difficult exercises you will ever do. Carry a pad with you at all times and make a mark each time you catch yourself “thinking negative.” You’ll find that as the days go on your negative thinking can quickly be reduced. The motivational expert Zig Ziglar uses a phrase I love about people having “stinking thinking.” Your job is to cut out that stinking thinking.

PRINCIPLE THREE | STOP JUDGING OTHERS.
It’s hard to be joyful when you’re always judging others. In fact, it’s close to impossible. Judging others creates a huge amount of stress in our lives. It affects our marriages and our relationships with our kids as well as the way we relate to friends, coworkers, and society in general.

We are not here to judge one another. The next time you find yourself upset at someone or some situation, stop yourself and ask, “Are you judging?” Judging others is often an unconscious habit. But it’s a habit that can be changed the moment you decide to stop doing it and just this little change can make a huge difference.

PRINCIPLE FOUR |PURSUE FUN WITH A VENGEANCE.
It’s okay to pursue fun. It’s what children do. My greatest joy these days is the simple pleasure of going to the park with my sons, Jack and James. The park is free; the time I spend with them in the park is priceless.

Why do we stop pursuing fun as we get older? Fun shouldn’t be squeezed into a few weeks of vacation each year. It shouldn’t be squeezed into the last chapter of your life when you will supposedly have enough money to “retire.” Fun deserves to be a part of your life now. Most of the things in life that are fun can be done for little or no money. But fun doesn’t just happen. You must make having it a priority in your life or it will go missing. And life is too short to not have fun.

This 4th of July I want you to take a moment and think about your pursuit of happiness and then go HAVE FUN! Report back to me by commenting below or on my Facebook page about what makes your life RICH!

Live Rich,

David Bach

 

 

Top Five Rules for Hiring a Financial Advisor

Hiring the wrong financial advisor is one of the biggest mistakes investors can make. So how do you find a good one? By following my 5 rules for hiring a financial advisor I am confident you will be able to find a financial professional who can help you make smart decisions about your money.

Rule 1: Get a referral.
This is such a cliché, but it’s a cliché because it’s true. It doesn’t make sense to start your search for a financial advisor from scratch. Most likely, you already know someone who has a great financial advisor. You just need to ask.

But whom do you ask and what do you ask them? A logical place to start is with your accountant or attorney.

Both should be able to offer you more than one referral. (In fact, I suggest asking for three referrals).

Another great way to get a referral is to ask the wealthiest person you know, “Who do you use as a financial advisor?” It doesn’t have to be a close friend. Ask someone you respect — your boss, or a friend of a friend. The wealthier they are the better, because the rich tend to have the best advisors.

When getting a referral, here are the key questions to ask:

  • Why do you like your advisor?
  • How long have you worked together?
  • What specifically have they done for you?
  • Did they provide you a written financial plan?
  • How often do they meet with you?
  • Do they call you or do you call them?
  • How do you pay them?
  • Do they provide you with a performance statement that shows you how you’re doing?
  • Have you had any problems?
  • How’s their customer service?

Will you be compensated for this referral? (Ask this of accountants and attorneys or any other professional who provides the referral.)

Rule 2: If you can’t get a referral, do your own research.
If you’ve tried and you find that you really can’t get a referral, try a referral service that will provide you with information about financial advisors. Here’s a list to get you started:

The Financial Planning Association
(800) 322-4237
http://www.fpanet.org/
The FPA’s web site allows you to search by ZIP code for a certified financial planner (CFP) in a number of different specialties.

National Association of Personal Financial Advisors
(800) 366-2732
http://www.napfa.org/
This site allows you to search by ZIP code for financial advisors who operate on a fee-only basis.

Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards, Inc.
800-487-1497
http://www.cfp.net/
The CFP Board also has a search tool — by ZIP code or name — on its site. You can also request a free Financial Planning Resource Kit, which contains a collection of educational brochures on financial planning.

Rule 3: Go to your first meeting prepared.
A true financial professional will insist that you come to your first meeting prepared. Ideally, they’ll provide you with a form in advance to help you get your financial documents organized and ready to bring with you.

When you go to your first meeting, you’ll want to bring bank and brokerage statements (for all your investments), last year’s tax returns, retirement account statements, mortgage statements, and insurance documents.

Finally, you should know some things about yourself and what you want out of the relationship. So before you head into your meeting, check out the 5 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF.

Rule 4: Treat the first meeting like an interview.
Who you hire to manage your money is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in your life, so take it seriously. You need to ask smart questions and not just hire someone because you “like them.” Check out the 10 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR FINANCIAL ADVISOR.

Rule 5: Check out a prospective advisor’s background.
If you only follow one of these rules, follow this one. Never, ever, ever hire a financial advisor without checking out his or her background. I don’t care how nice their office is, what the company name on the door is, who referred you, or how many times they were in the paper or on television or radio. It doesn’t matter. Looks aren’t always what they seem.

The best way to verify that what an advisor says is true is to contact the major organizations that review advisors. Start by using FINRA’s BrokerCheck®

BrokerCheck is a free tool to help investors research the professional backgrounds of current and former FINRA-registered brokerage firms and brokers, as well as investment adviser firms and representatives. It should be the first resource investors turn to when choosing whether to do business or continue to do business with a particular firm or individual.

I’ve shared this advice before in my books, and I can’t tell you how many people have written to me to say that they checked out their current advisor and were stunned at what they found. One reader told me that their advisor had a criminal record that included battery (which he had never disclosed). Needless to say, she fired him.

The bottom line: There are really great financial advisors out there, and they are looking for clients like you. You just need to do some smart work to find them. And if you have an advisor that you’re not happy with, maybe it’s time to do a new search.

I hope this information helps you find an amazing financial advisor. Make sure you have The FinishRich Advisor Questionnaire™ form with you when you are interviewing potential advisors.

 

Live Rich!
David Bach

 

June 23, 2012 – find YOUR money







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DID YOU KNOW: State treasurers and other government agencies are currently holding more than $32 billion in unclaimed assets from 117 million accounts that their owners have either forgotten about or never knew they had?






I assume the sentence above got your attention. Well, it’s true. Billions of dollars in unclaimed assets are sitting in government coffers–and maybe some of it is yours. So why not take a look?






I receive success stories all the time from people who have found their unclaimed money. Now, it’s your turn to look for money that’s rightfully yours – so let’s get started with my

7 Easy Ways to Find Hundreds of Dollars in Less Than an Hour!





1. Check the Federal Government’s Savings Bond Database





According to the United States Treasury, more than $17 billion worth of Series E Savings Bonds have never been redeemed. These bonds were sold between 1941 and 1980, marketed by the government as a safe and patriotic way to invest. Maybe you got one as a gift. (I know I did–the dreaded "Grandma got you a savings bond" gift.) Apparently, a lot of recipients simply forgot about them.




There are more than 55 million savings bonds that people own, so it’s not that much of a stretch to imagine that at one point maybe you were given a savings bond that you forgot to cash. Well, let’s go and find out. You can do this in minutes. First visit the

Treasury Department’s savings bonds website and navigate to a special page called Treasury Hunt®. Once you’ve reached the Treasury Hunt page, you’ll find a big blue button two-thirds of the way down marked "Start Search." Click on it, type in your Social Security number, and you’ll instantly be informed whether or not they are holding some bonds in your name!




2. Check the Banks




As much fun as it is to find money the Treasury is holding for you, it’s equally fun to find money the banks may be holding for you. Remember that savings account you opened up with your parents as a kid? Did you every cash it out? What about the bank account you first opened up when you got married, or that college savings account your grandmother opened for your kids?




The fact is that people move, change jobs, get married, change their names, get divorced, change their names again, die- you name it. Every single day, money gets lost at the banks.






Here’s how to find the money that you may have lost. My first stop would be the

NAUPA website, which provides links to the individual databases of all 50 states listing unclaimed assets. I’d also visit MissingMoney.com, a one-stop-shop for finding unclaimed property that is operated by a private company for NAUPA.




To read my last 5 easy ways to find potentially hundreds of dollars in less than an hour –

CLICK HERE!



Remember, this money is not going to come and find you — so if you haven’t already, START TODAY!




Lastly, I want to hear your success story when and if you find money. Please head over to www.facebook.com/davidbach or email me at success@finishrich.com and let me know what happened! My favorite part of my day is reading your success stories.




Live Rich,






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June 16, 2012 – Relationship money questions….ANSWERED!







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After my Today show segment on Wednesday, I did a LIVE CHAT on Today.com to answer relationship money questions from readers that included a host of inquiries on how couples can put their financial houses in order.




The key, I told them, is being honest about financial challenges and getting both members of a couple to do their part. This can be difficult for some and I hope my advice helped those who joined the chat and will now be helpful to any of you facing similar issues in your relationship.




Check out some of the questions and answers below and to access the transcript of the ENTIRE Q&A CLICK HERE.





G. Money asked me:



"My wife and I have been married for 15 years. We both are spenders. We have accumulated a lot of debt. We have about a $110,000 mortgage, $35,000 2nd mortgage, $12,000 personal loan and $10,000 in credit card debt. How do we tackle this debt? Also, how do we change our bad spending habits?"




MY reply:



"All financial progress begins with telling the truth and you just did that, so well done. I think you need credit counseling. I would go to www.debtadvice.org, and get a referral to a non-profit credit counselor to review what your bad habits are and what you can do to change your behavior. Also go to the library and get Debt Free For Life, my new book and simply work the plan I lay out, it can help you get on the right track to crush your debt and change your life. Good luck to you! You can do this, and you can change."




Khang asked:



"She wants a joint bank account; I don’t. She’s a spender, I’m the saver. Can you help me resolve conflict with my future wife?"




I Replied:



"Khang, welcome to marriage…lol. The truth is we almost always marry our financial opposite. Check out my book "Smart Couples, Finish Rich." In this book I teach couples to first work on discovering their core values, and planning their dreams together. Then I turn to your finances. The best place to start is on organizing your financial documents at home with my Finish Rich File Folder System. You can actually find this on my website also at www.finishrich.com. Next you should work on finding your couples Latte Factor, where you spend small amounts of money on little things that you can both give up. And then it’s time to work on a ‘pay yourself first plan‘, where you agree to set aside a fixed percentage of your income off the top of your income before you spend anything. Lot’s to consider, but trust me you really can do this–and being on the same page with your money will change your life! Good luck to you!"




The reality is that couples that plan together when it comes to their money–have a much better chance of staying together and living and finishing rich.




To read the transcript of the entire Q&A CLICK HERE.




LIVE RICH!




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9 Time New York Times Bestselling Author


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NBC’s Today Show – Money 911 – June 13, 2012

If you missed this week’s NBC’s Today Show – Money 911 segment make sure to watch now. We discussed combining finances in a second marriage,  whether to take the annuity or take a lump sum if you are laid off from a company you’re vested in and how to find affordable health insurance. I hope our answers helped you!

Live Rich,
David Bach

June 9, 2012 – Do you have the entrepreneurial spirit?







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Let’s get straight to the point–creating a second stream of income can change your life. In all of my books and seminars one of my main teachings is that you should spend less and save more in order to live and finish rich. But think about it, if you spend less, save more, and MAKE more, nothing will stop you from reaching your goals and achieving financial freedom.



So this weekend, I want you to think and dream about what you would do if you were to create a second stream of income.




To set you on the right path, I want to give you my rules for getting started.




Most home-based businesses never get off the ground because most people get mired in minutia. They don’t realize there are really only three rules to follow to start a home-based business:


  1. Ready
  2. Aim
  3. Fire
Okay, I’m kidding – There are actually Four Rules You Need To Follow.



Rule No. 1 is to make the decision that you are ready to start a business at home. Find a spot in your house. Pick a day on your calendar and get started. Read books on how to start a business and do research, checking resources available on the internet. But get started. A cause set in motion begets results.




Rule No. 2 is to pick a field. Don’t spend years trying to find just the "right business" for yourself; don’t worry if you don’t get it right the first time. You’re not signing up for life and you’re not giving up your day job (yet). Just pick something that gets you excited and get going.




Rule No. 3 is to get help. Considering how many resources there are out there to help you, it’s silly to try and go it alone. You’re not even close to being the first person to start a new business at home–more than 20 million Americans have gone before you–so take advantage of their experience.




Rule No. 4 is to make it legal. Although you don’t need a lot of "stuff" to start a business, you do need to make it legal. To keep the IRS off your back, you will need to set up a legal structure for your business by choosing from three structures: sole proprietorship, partnership, and corporation. For more information on the subject, go to the IRS website at www.irs.gov and request publication #334, “Tax Guide for Small Businesses." If you are selling retail products, you will more than likely need a State Tax Resale Number.



If you could start your own business, any business, what would it be? Share your answer on my facebook page.




Have a great weekend!




Live Rich,


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The secret to discounted produce: Ask!

How to save AND eat healthy.

Do you think that eating healthy can get expensive?

On Today.com I answered a question from a Facebook Fan that helps solve just this problem.

Jennifer asked: Most coupons I find are for junky processed food. It’s hard to save money and eat natural, organic or diet-friendly food. What’s your advice?

My advice:

  • Plant your vegetables and fruit in the backyard (like I used to do with my mom growing up.)
  • Check your grocery store for the discount coupons – each week your grocer will come out with deals, specials, and discounts – these flyers are usually right when you walk in – read those advertisements so don’t miss on some great savings.
  • Talk to the store manager about when they put the produce on sale – there is usually a specific day that stores will decide to put the fruits and veggies on sale.

I hope this advice helps you eat healthy this summer while continuing to save! And let me know, what do you do to eat healthy without breaking the bank?

Live Rich,
David Bach